Pauline Dolores Vidal - Online Memorial Website

Gosh, Auntie Pauline.. Its been a couple years now, but I still feel the pain and heartache that I felt the day u left us. They say time heals, but how much time? The holidays are so hard... it doesnt feel the same because u are NOT with us? U always made the holidays special. When u were around, everyone felt the love and spirit of the holiday, but now it feels so empty.  Life is NOT fair! I love and miss u Auntie Pauline ♥ I just cant accept the loss U... U were so sweet, caring, understanding, warm and precious to me... Its not fair!!! I know God does things for a reason, but what was HIS reason for taking U?? I will never understand WHY???

Merry Christmas Aunt... ♥ U

12-23-2010

Hugs and Kisses to the BEST AUNT

To the family and children of Pauline Vidal, I wish to extend my belated condolences on the passing of beautiful and wonderful woman. I was blessed to have known and be a small part of her life for too short an amount of time. Pauline you have always held a warm and special place in my life. You are now in heaven with my son Ernie Jr. Wish him hello for me. May God Bless You. Ernest Orta Sr.

TO PAULINE FAMILY:Sometimes THINGS HAPPEN THAT MAKE US ASK,"WHY,GOD"AND ALL WE CAN DO IS LOOK TO HIM IN FAITH,NOT UNDERSTANDING, JUST BELIEVING.I REALLY THING THAT THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES,I DONT UNDERSTAND THE WHY, BUT ONE THING I DO KNOW.IS THAT "GOD"IS STILL "GOD" AND THAT HE IS NEEDED NOW MORE THAN EVER BEFORE.

I MISS PAULINE EVRY SINGLE DAY. GODD BLESS PAULINE FAMILY.

A Thanksgiving Poem

Dear Father who art in Heaven...
Please join our family on this Thanksgiving day
And bless each one as we sit down to pray
As we remember those who have joined You above
So dearly missed and deeply loved.

Please provide us strength on this Thanksgiving day
Bless us with memories of those faraway...
Please grant patience to family and friends as we grieve
And help us reach out to others who are bereaved.

We give thanks to You on this Thanksgiving day....
For Your presence in our lives each and everyday.
For Your comfort, guidance, and never ending love...
And for taking care of our loved ones...in Heaven above.

As we light this candle on this Thanksgiving day...
And it glows in memory of those in Heaven today....
May their lights always shine down on us and give us light...
And may we feel their presence along with Yours tonight.

May the peace and tranquility of this Thanksgiving day
Be an everlasting light within each of us along the way...
Lets bow our heads and give our Thanks to God above..
For our blessings, whether on earth or in Heaven above...
Amen

Poem graciously submitted by The Jason Program
THANKS TO MOM OF JUSTIN LINDLEY

MY FRIEND: 9 months GOD took you to a better place. The days pased so quickle, but in my heart it feel like only Yesturday. Your Spirit LIVE with my forever in my HEART. I LOVE PAULINE AND I MISS YOU .

March,6,2009 March 6,2009 Happy Birthday:Pauline dance to your favorite music, in heaven, remember, we will do the same,remembering you on this special day I will never forget we, laughed, with you every year, we seen you smile with people you loved, we seen you cry we held you and said we love you, we said to you, you will be in our hearts for ever Pauline, we had lot's of good times on March 6 2008, you told us you were sick, this day, brought us to tears, more laughter and lots of good times this day will be in all of our hearts for ever toady, we celebrate your birth, we celebrate your return home a journey we will all take one day, and you will be there to welcome us home

MAN AUNTi​E PAULi​NE.​i MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY​.​ IM SITTI​N AT HOME SAD JUS THINK​IN ABOUT​ YOU.​YOU REALL​Y CARED​ FOR ME LIKE A MOTHE​R.​SOMTI​MES I WISHE​D YOU WERE MY MOM. I CANT BELIV​E YOU LEFT!​ YOU LEFT ME SO BROKI​N HEARTE​D.​ I NEVER​ REALL​Y DONE ALL THIS STUF IM DOIN NOW. I REMEM​BER WHEN I SEEN YOU IN THE HOSPI​TAL I CRYED​ N CRYED​ SO MUCH I HAD NO MORE TEARS​ TO CRY. N THEN WHEN I SEEN YOU JUS SO SiCK;​ MY HEART​ BROKE​.​ THERE​S A PEICE​ OF ME MISSI​NG AND KNO ONE CAN EVER FIX. SOMET​IMES I Question GOD FOR TAKIN​ THE ONE WHO MENT THE MOST TO ME. YOU GAVE ME HOPE AND FAITH​.​ I GO TO YOUR ROOM N JUS SIT N THINK​ ON HOW MUCH I MISS YOU. i CRy EVERyTiME i LEAVE.BECAUSE EVERYTIME I LEFT YOUR ROOM YOU ALWAYS GAVE ME A KISS AND A HUG GOODBYE.I MISS THOSES SO MUCH.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

Hi, Pauline, thinking about you today, I have not for got you, never, I am listening to your music on Dec 10,2008, it's the holidays, I know you are happy, now, your leaving us has left us incomplete--our family will always miss you(your food) we try to hold on to the day we see you again healthy, beautiful like you were , times are bad right now, I miss you so much, it's not the same with out you, you are my sister, Pauline, you are lucky to be where you are out of your pain and not suffering any longer, Pauline watch over us I remember you told me you worried about Gloria, she is hurting and we need to pray for her, she is having a hard time with out you like all of us, Mom is strong on the outside, but she misses you, and Carmen and Aunt Annie all passed with in months of each other. The stars outside, your the biggest light in heaven, your boy's are fine, they miss you too very much, I know your struggle when you were here with us, I feel your pain, I wished I was able to help you more, but deep down inside you know we are ok, it's hard, it's time when I miss you the most, we used to talk about stupid stuff, I know why you told me to try to keep my family together, but pauline they are growing up, I don't think I did the right thing or raised them right, Brittany is lost right now, I know she misses you, by making the wrong choices in life, what can I say, she has to learn, it hurts that she has made the choices , now she will bring another baby into this world, I pray and I know you are watching her that she comes down to earth and realize she is a mother what did I do wrong, I never left my kids ever, I was strong, now she takes abuse, by a man, I do not like, how can I see her make this choice I have to sit back and watch her make mistake over mistake, but this baby that may be coming is not a mistake, I remember you used to tell me that I catered to my kids too much, but that is what a mother does, like you you never left your boy's I am so proud of you, you never had to beg the government to help support your familiy, I very much admire you, I find myself stuck, I am not as strong as you, week, you deserve the best in heaven, I do not know where I am going when I pass-----if it is God's will, I will see you and than I can tell you how much I loved you, and my kids loved you so much Brandon cries each one of them feel your passing Cheyenne, is going in the wrong direction she cried the other night she said you were the only one she could talk to, Pauline you had a gift, not to many of us have, you are a asset in heaven Heaven received a smart girl to brighten the heavens oh, you know your friend Sylvia, sister letee, is fighting cancer right now, I want to go see her because they were there for you in the last days, she is going through what you did, but I believe if God wants her, he will take her out of her pain and when she does make it to heaven she will go in peace with no pain, if God is not calling her right now she will make it until he calls her home anyway, I believe right now, you are at peace, it hurts to know you suffered with this lousy disease, you are not alone, I wanted you to know that, I know you knew you were going to be with God he gave you that peace right to the end--and you did not want mom to suffer more than she had to, your funeral was full of people who loved you the church was packed from people you never thought would be there you were loved Pauline, now you are with the loved one's your dad, grandma and grandpa uncles and aunts you are not alone, I do not know when I will be back to the site to write to you again so I made it long, well Pauline you rest, now, I bet you put your make-up on every morning, when you were here you never went outside with out it? ha ha, Love you Diane My favorit song from Smokey Robinson is" Baby baby don't cry"